This was done to reduce the amount of messages not going through due to a full mailbox. Hopefully this will bring back some of the people who haven't logged in for sometime as well
Some people are also under the impression that you get X number of messages and thats it forever. This isn't the case, the limit is just the amount of messages you can store in the system, delete old messages and th… Read all

The growth of the site and the simultaneous connections on the chat system have started to cause errors and slow downs with my host. I have to disable the chat system for a couple of days while I find this place a new home. This should clear up the errors you've been seeing the last little while. Read all

I removed pictures from a couple of members profiles tonight that had kids/babies in their profile picture.
I'm sure it was innocent and people are proud of their kids and might not think about the safety or privacy repercussions it might have
but it can open people up to a whole other level of issues I don't want to deal with.

I will amend the "Read me" for new members to includ… Read all